Retain Your Joy

keep calmMany situations can tempt us to allow our joy to be taken from us, such as an unkind comment or betrayal in a friendship.

Certainly, these scenarios can be confusing, and upsetting, which takes some time to process. However, what adds to the pain is feeling bad about ourselves or blaming ourselves for why others are acting in certain ways.

While no one is perfect, and we can unintentionally exacerbate a perplexing situation, we are not the cause of another persons choice in behavior. We all have a choice on how we respond to life, and in our relationships.

This includes the choice to not believe any negative thoughts we have about ourselves which can steal our joy as well.

Often, it is a blessing when challenges or discomfort occurs because it lets us know it may be time to move on, or stand up for ourselves or learn how to handle emotions in a less personally damaging way.

Staying positive preserves our happy spirit, contains our personal power, and boosts our energy needed to take the necessary actions we need to take.

We are stronger than we think, and have a bigger impact than we know. If we become discouraged or frustrated for too long, than we won’t make the positive impact we are called to make both individually, and in our world.

So, keeping our joy is not about denying that pain exists or being inauthentic in our responses. It is about not allowing ourselves to lose hope, or pleasure, and keeping focused on what is good and possible.

What helps you keep your joy?

 

 

 

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11 thoughts on “Retain Your Joy

  1. How beautiful to come back after such a long time and find this awesome reminder on your blog, dear Cathie! Thank you! Like so often, it also shows synchronicity with my personal, current experience.

    What recently helped me a lot to retain my joy was actually exactly this acceptance of who I am, that you are mentioning and. the insight that I do not have to twist or turn around anymore to make “outer” circumstances look better.

    Also, activities like sharing my experiences with my beloved husband, meditating (currently, in example, with Deepak Chopra) reading the Discworld novels by the wonderful late Terry Pratchett, enjoying music and connecting with nature always support me in finding my joy.

    Much love,
    Steffi

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